What injects happiness and fulfillment into your married life can be traced to what is happening in your daily life: how you live daily with the man in your life … how you relate with your husband on a daily basis. There is a way a husband should relate with his wife everyday, likewise, there are things a woman should always do for/to his husband routinely. But this post is for women – there are daily rituals you need to do for your husband as a wife to make you a female like no other in his life. 5 Things to do for your husband everyday
The five tips below are not once in a month things to do – never go on strike and you will really become his backbone, you will be the neck that brings firmness to his shaking head:
1. Understand him
As a man he is, he has enough weight on his shoulders – don’t criticize him or nag. If you need anything, give him time to provide it, there is no reason for you to compare him with others. He has a lot of pressure on his head already, it will be a suicide note from you to him if you pressurise and create unrest for him.
Understand him and show some level of maturity that tells you deserve him. Don’t raise your voice at him and don’t call him names.
Mother earth looks after her children – including you. You often suffer in life because you ignore her signals to/for you, since you can’t read well the handwriting on your wall. The universe sometimes would whisper to you, but you won’t take note because you are carried away with your day to day activities. 5 Warning Signs from the Universe That You’re On the Wrong Path
Sometimes, when the universe signals to you that you are on the wrong path, it does not utterly mean you are travelling towards the wrong direction, it could also mean that you are travelling on the right path in a wrong time which makes it a wrong path technically.
Below are signs that you are on the wrong path
1. No Results
You are unable to know why your efforts go all up in the smoke, despite everything nothing seems working. One thing will always lead to another that will pronounce your project dead. People around you know that you are not the lazy type, and this you also know too well that you are making great efforts but all to no avail. You always have every other things in place, but luck is always missing.
Maybe the good cause you are advocating is not the right cause for you. Not everything that is good will be right for you.
Mental abuse is a public health concern that affects both gender – either in marriage or relationship. Causing loss to lives and properties, it could be emotional, verbal, or physical. Both the abusee and the abuser needs counselling. Mental Abuse Tactics To Watch Out For
A man is incomplete without his mental health being intact, a disruption in mental health affects all other part of a man’s life; his feeling, emotion, cognitive ability and his interaction with immediate environment and people.
There are some abnormal behaviours, attitudes, characters and inherent genes that could mar or make our mental health.
They stare at people with glare of revenge; looking rebellious. Their gaze sends message to you and sends shivering down your spine. With the look in their eyes, you can read the intents of their heart. All what they do is to give a stern look on their face.
Their anger is always fuming mad because there is a surge in their adrenaline, they would always find reason to get angry at people and situations. They are easily riled and worked up, they are difficult to placate and they won’t hold back their emotions in the name of remonstration.
3. Insincere Empathy
What they give is fake empathy, you would think they are sympathising with you but what they do and say is not real. One of the ways to confirm their crocodile’s tears is saying one thing in your presence and saying another thing in your absence. They appear they care, but you would always get to know that they are not the one you think they are.
Would you like to take some optical test to confirm the status of your eagled eyes by finding the family of three cheetahs sneaking across the rocky outcrop? How many seconds/minutes will it take you to find out the three cheetahs?
There are people and there are people, amongst them are users, givers and lovers. As you navigate through life, it is only natural to come across different kinds of people – people from shores and islands. Because you will meet them, there are needs for you to prepare yourself for who and what you will meet. It is important to equip yourself with some basic social skills that will draw worthy people to yourself, and also to keep them in your life. People would come and go, some of them will walk away voluntarily, and you could be the cause why some will walk out of your life because of your excesses you are not curbing anytime soon. THE 5 IMPORTANT PEOPLE YOU WILL EVER NEED
Also, you have to know that some people will walk into your life without you inviting them, it is now up to you to know if they are the type of people you need to create room for or some people you need to shut out.
This article is tasked to highlight the kind of people you need in life; that you may find the need to appreciate them and not to take them for granted when you see them in your life. Life can really be worthwhile or otherwise depending on the people you surrounded yourself with. The people in your life will determine if you will have a longer or shorter life.
Let’s Consider Some People You Can’t Do Without In Your Lifetime
1. People like family
These individuals make you feel at home; they are very welcoming and accommodating and treat you as a brother or sister they never had. You are always assured to have your best moments with these individuals even in your weakest state. You seem to them like their long lost person or brother, in them you will find a friend that sticks closer than a brother or sister.
Imagine a young growing girl with a promising future from a good background, God fearing and a lover of people who had gone through a lot at a very young age! Although life is full of hurdles, challenges but one should not face them at a very young age because it undermines the potential in the young ones, and shake them up. TO THE GIRL WHO HAS BEEN THROUGH A LOT
I know of a young girl – very beautiful, a loner, ambitious who was raped twice in her formative years by a neighbour at a time when she was naïve. At that time, she felt life was over, her thought process was distorted, and she hated men so badly and concluded all men are the same. However, she never told anybody about the incident until she grew older. The trauma of the experience shattered her emotions, her feelings and even weighed her down in couples of time.
She kept silence and never told anybody about it because she thought she would be humiliated, sidelined, she thought she would be seen as a woe and not being able to get the love she needed from other people. Her family members were not sensitive enough to know what had happened to her, they could not sense her loneliness and withdrawal. Though on her part, she pretended that all is well, but she was bleeding inside. When other girls talked about being virgins, she feels very bad and depressed because she had always wanted to be a virgin to wait until her prince charming would come on horse to walk her down the aisle.
She carried the pain, burden and the trauma alone until she became an adult, this time she was able to overcome the fear of telling people about it and letting go of the past. As she was about healing from the painful experience, she lost her two loved ones to death in a period of three months while she was schooling, this incident shattered and battered her the more, and this led to another three years of loneliness, bitterness and wanting to be left alone, and to probably go hiding. As time goes on, she was able to let go of the past, build a resilience, got herself back and stay happy.
Below Are Lessons Her Experiences Taught Her:
1. She learnt to be sensitive.
2. She learnt to speak out when in trouble in order to get help and support from people.
3. She learnt to share her worries to people who genuinely care and not mockers.
4. She learnt keeping to oneself is never a solution, but a mechanism that makes one to bleed more.
5. She learns to build resilience and to be strong for herself.
6. She learnt to be happy at all times even when things are not rosy.
7. She learnt to accept and love herself intentionally.
Cancer is a star sign, the zodiac sign for the crab. This sign is ruled by the Moon and covering June 22 to July 22, every individual born from June 22 to July 22 belongs to the Cancer sign and are popular called ‘The Crabs’. A person born under this astrological sign is referred to as Cancerian. Things You Need To Know About Loving A Cancer
Cancerians have some unique inherent features in them that make them an exceptional lover and partner. They have a certain belief about love; they have a culture of love that is certain; there is a way they give their love and there is a way they receive love from others. These are finer details you need to know about them. The more you know about them, the better you enjoy their love.
How Does This Sign Fares In Love?
1. People of this sign are sensitive and so caring. They look after their romantic partner with all care and attention they’ve got. They are attentive to their (partner’s) emotions and feelings, also, they make good listeners. They offer emotional security, and they practise welfare in its truest meaning.
Everyone deserves love regardless of what has come their way or what they have suffered. Life happenings can bring about mental lockdown and emotional breakdown, and there is a way life connects us to people who are broken. Love relationship is also to be a hiding a place to everybody – a place of protection where you exchange your weakness for strength, a healing place where fresh emotional wounds become scars and healed. 4 WAYS THE EMOTIONALLY BROKEN MAN LOVES DIFFERENTLY
Perhaps your choice of lover in a man or woman may be broken emotionally because life has happened to them in an unpleasing way. Would you let go of your love because of their current state; what would you do to support and lift their spirit? These and many more are points you would consider since your romantic partner is not feeling too great emotionally. While you consider those pointers, it is very important to know how a broken man loves in a relationship lest you find reasons to misinterpret their words and actions lest they are misjudged.
Appreciate the fact that they are strong enough to still consider the affairs of love, it shows their resilience towards not giving up on love and this needs to be appreciated. One of the ways to appreciate them is to understand how they love – their love language. This will help your dealings with them and know how to attend to them better, it is true that the way you will relate with emotionally broken man will be different from a man who is broken emotionally. Meanwhile, it is not their fault that they are like that.
Why abandonment? What has happened when someone leave us and run after another? Most people, if not all have suffered abandonment in different walks of life: Your romantic partner walking away when you least expected; your staff tendering their resignation letter at the most crucial time (when you needed them most); your boss rating others above you and not making ‘the battle of survival’ fair and equal as it ought to be; children forgetting about their parent/relations when they are living well; one of the parent abandoning one child for the other; it could also be that a friend whom you have loved and served with your food and sweats later abandon you when it is well with them. Really! We all have suffered abandonment in one way or the other. While we all have suffered abandonment, not all have overturned the situation around. Breaking The Cycle of Abandonment
Lest I forgot, I think I also need to add that we might probably have abandoned some people too, leaving them to the hold of abandonment. Perhaps, we are not saints either. Maybe abandoning is what we can’t help. Maybe it is one of the evils we have to live with. At the end of it all, it could be that we are all looking out for ourselves.
While rejection will happen, we should know how to float above rejection – it is very important. There is a slang, though funny but it is relative: “Soldier go soldier come, barrack remains forever.” On a light note, your barrack should remain come what may. Sometimes, we can keep people in our lives by our efforts, sometimes, we can’t help it if they want to leave – we can’t actually stop them. They have earned the right to move anytime they feel like, it does not matter if it is for the good or bad reason.
While rejection, desertion will always take place, it is vital for the sake of your mental, emotional and social credibility that you know how to break the cycle of abandonment lest you suffer from it now and then.
You Can Break The Cycle of Abandonment By Doing The Following:
Being acquainted with truths is a necessary thing to do, it is a creative way to face the reality while looking forward for a better situation. Telling yourself brutal truths will contribute greatly to your daily living. There are things you need to know that will give you clarity and edge over situations and sometimes people. BRUTAL TRUTHS THAT WILL MAKE YOU A BETTER PERSON
Learning the truths will help you to know how to be grateful for life even in your own little way, will inspire you not to beat yourself so hard when some unpleasant things happen.
1. You Cannot Always Be Right
Acknowledge the fact that you are not a perfect person and an island of knowledge, there are some areas you are lacking even when it comes to judging situations and people, know that what you say cannot always be right, there are times you will err. When it happens, acknowledge your wrongs, acknowledge that you are a human and raise your head looking forward. Acquainting yourself with this truth will help you to improve your relationship and communication with people while you are on the table of discussion.
All signs have the potential to succeed and make it big in life. But among signs, there are signs who are more tilted to break the ceiling and record huge success with little effort. This is no end to diligence that the five zodiac signs should rest on their laurels by folding their hands doing nothing. Top 5 Zodiac Signs Most Likely To Get Rich According To Top Astrologers
N.B: That other zodiac signs don’t make this list does not mean that they are disadvantaged or less ambitious than the five signs listed below
Below Are 5 Signs Most Likely To Get Rich
(June 22-July 22)
Cancers are sensitive and observant to opportunities knocking on their doors, they also have their ways to attract opportunities that are flying in streets to their doorstep. They are calm figures who understand the conditions of time would not miss to strike at the crucial time.
One of their qualities they possess is accountability. They are faithful with money and deal with money wisely, they are strategic and master planners. They take delight working silently until their successes sound aloud and bring them into the limelight.
An empath is one who has the ability to sense emotions and feelings of people and things (situations) around them. Most people limit empaths to people alone; they also smell situations. These people are the ones with extra-sensory empathic ability, capable of sensing the emotions of others around them in a way unexplained by conventional science and psychology. Your Gifts As An Empath
Why empaths? We need empaths around us as guardian, light bearer, burden bearer. With them, we will be able to face what comes our way; we will have that friend that sticks closer to a brother or sister; life would be worth living and living would be fun.
Being an empath means there are gifts that can be traced to you that can’t be found in others. It is those gifts that really make you an empath; without them, you would be another person just like us.
Meanwhile, there are empaths that don’t know they are empaths. They think what they do and what they feel is normal. Sometimes, when they do what is beyond them, they think they are only lucky, not knowing too well that it is not a matter of luck, but it is their identity.
In another case, some people are already suspecting themselves to be one, but they are not just sure yet. Regardless of the category you find yourself, this article will bring you into the ‘know’ and as it guides you that you may discover yourself.
Below Are Gifts That Inform You Are An Empath: read page 2 below
Cancer is a star sign, the zodiac sign for the crab. This sign is ruled by the Moon and covering June 22 to July 22, every individual born from June 22 to July 22 belongs to the Cancer sign and are popular called ‘The Crabs’. A person born under this astrological sign is referred to as Cancerian. Reasons Why THE CRABS Are The Best Lovers In The Zodiac
Cancerians have some unique inherent features in them that make them an exceptional lover and partner. They have a certain belief about love; they have a culture of love that is certain; there is a way they give their love and there is a way they receive love from others. These are finer details you need to know about them. The more you know about them, the better you enjoy their love. You also need to know that there is no other zodiac sign who expresses love better than them, you are lucky if you find yourself a romantic partner born under this sign – your romantic love just got better. Let’s be hopeful you will not frustrate your love. There are lovers and there are lovers, amongst lovers, Cancerians lead the way and would always make love more interesting for their partner.
Shall We Then Highlight Some Reasons Why Cancer Is The Best Lover?
1. Their love can flourish with anyone
Some people hate it when their partner is clingy on them, they complain that their partner doesn’t give them breathing space and the love they give them is choking. Others hate it when their partner behaves normal and careful with them, they had wanted that their partner should be all over them and be clingy but reverse is the case. As a result, they complain that their partner does not love them like they love them. These complaints give room for negative energies and feelings and cut short the flow and romance in love relationships where there are cases such as these. Thus making both parties become frustrated lovers.
Meanwhile, a partner to Cancer would not experience – they can successfully and naturally give their love in a hybrid way. They can be clingy if their partner subscribe to it, likewise they can give their partner some breathing space and distance without having their partner worried that they now love them less. They can do this and still make their heart beat for their partner only and no one else, it is a behavioural change they do effortlessly.
Therapists know a great deal about narcissism because they have seen and dealt with worst narcissist cases over the years. Ranging from the history of narcissist and narcissism to the behaviours that all narcissists have in common to the challenge they pose, down to the tricks on their sleeves. Things Therapists Know About Narcissists That You Need To Know
It is important you put yourself in the ‘know’ and learn the eventualities that surround narcissist and their ways. Knowing some features that surround them will help your relations with them.
Below Are Things About Therapists That You Need To Know:
1. Narcissists Are Obsessive
Obsession is one of the weapons they use to gain territory towards advancement. They select and choose their victim carefully and then become obsessed in them. But they have mastered the dark art to make their victims appeared to be dependent on them when they are actually the one that is dependent on their victim.
They depend on their victim to feed their ego and meet their needs from time to time. If the victim is not coming around, they know the bait to throw to lure them that they may come around them. One of the realities that surround narcissism is that narcissist needs their victim more than the victim need them. They are really obsessed in their victim because they know they will be hit too hard if their victim go away from them.
Leo is a star sign, the zodiac sign for the lion. This sign is ruled by the Sun and covering July 23 to August 22, every individual born from July 23 to August 22 belongs to the zodiac sign Leo and are popular called ‘The Lion’. A person born under this astrological sign is referred to as Leonian. 8 Fun Facts About The Zodiac Sign Leo
There is a certain culture Leonians live, they share belief that is different from others. When you learn about them, you will understand why they think or act the way they do.
1.They Are Admired By Others
Everyone wants to be like them in some ways; it does not matter what they do, as little as they are, you would handle them in the best way possible, you are that organised and would not take things for granted.
This helps you to handle (treat) your partner, colleague and friend with utmost attention and respect and relate with them in the best way there is. Everything about you will be in good state, you are not rough and clumsy. Their associates find them more attractive because of their way of life.