in this, article we will discuss the 17 Texts You Should Not Send To Him and texts You Should Send To Him in colaboration with the Believecatalog.com. The most dramatic and romance-filled moments on TV and in movies always happen face-to-face. If a character texted their confession of love, it wouldn’t have quite the same impact.
But IRL, we’re most likely going to text the object of our affection, whether they’re a crush, someone we’ve gone on two dates with, or they’re our official boyfriend.
Texting seems like the best way to go since we can feel free to say whatever we want without having to look someone in the eyes or feel awkward or nervous. Of course, we feel like we have serious butterflies in our stomach while we wait for the response to come in, so it’s still a stressful experience.
Girls often say that guys don’t know how to text or what to say, and honestly, guys can come right back and say, “Same.” It’s a good reminder that we’re all just trying our past when we’re out there in the dating world… and maybe we should rethink some of the text messages that we’re sending.
There are many common text messages that we send the guys in our lives… and guys think that it’s time to stop. Here are 10 texts that guys wish that girls would stop sending, along with 10 that they wish we would send instead.
1. Go for ‘YES/NO’ Instead of ‘I DON’T KNOW’
No guy actually wants his girl to reply him with ‘I don’t know’. It sucks! If you are in his shoe, you will frown at it as well. A ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ is a simple answer that would have turned away his wrath. I don’t know means you don’t have his time and you are not interested in what he is saying. Come out bold and tell him what you feel, honestly.
You will only tell a guy ‘I don’t know’ if you really want to frustrate him.
2. Go for ‘I MISS YOU’ Instead of ‘YOU HAVE BEEN FAR AWAY FROM ME’
He wouldn’t want you to sound a judge to him, his schedules have been heavy, so he has little or no time to be close to you like before and now you could feel the absence. A more sweet text would do the magic faster than ‘You have been far from me these days’.
‘I miss you’ is a text that would turn him on to see you willingly and out of excitement. He can shelve his busy schedules for you.
3. Go for ’I WANT TO TELL YOU SOMETHING WHEN I GET HOME’ Instead of ‘WE NEED TO TALK’
He might be afraid with ‘We need to talk’, it is a statement that accompanies that injects a high level of seriousness in the would-be conversation. Make it simple and avoid sending wrong message with ‘We need to talk’. He might want to avoid the conversation but with ‘I want to tell you something when I get home’- he will be willing to hear what you want to say.
4. Go for ‘I WILL LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU SOON’ Instead ‘YOU ARE IGNORING ME’
Don’t jump into conclusion just yet. He might be fighting/dealing with something. Don’t sound too hard on him with ‘You are ignoring me’, he can actually choose to ignore you as a result of the text. The text makes you show you are clingy and he would seek for space as a result.
‘I will love to hear from you soon’ makes him feel relaxed with you and will appreciate your understanding. With this, you stands a better chance to hear from him sooner than ‘You are ignoring me’.
5. Go for ‘I LOVE YOU’ Instead of ‘MY FRIEND TOLD ME THAT HER MAN BOUGHT ME ……’
Do not compare your man with the man of your friend. It is irritating when you text or tell your guy in person what the man of your friend is doing right for your friend. He doesn’t have to know if he has not asked for the gist. With such act, you are bruising his ego. But with ‘I love you’, his self-esteem is levelled up. Don’t complain indirectly with that statement, rather appreciate him for his little kind gestures. It is sweet and romantic that way.