8 Signs of Toxic and Narcissistic Friend

8 Signs of Toxic and Narcissistic Friend

Friendship is a precious gift for humanity. Meanwhile, there are friendships and there are friendships. Some are toxic, it is not meant to be toxic, but when a friend is toxic, and then the relationship (friendship) becomes toxic.

There are friends that sticks closer than one’s brother or sister, a true friend that has proven their worth over time and situations. And there are also friends sitting on the fence; these ones are not really into you and they are really not for you, though they appear like one. A friend like a sup planter!

They are only close to you to monitor your progress and other things you are doing, that they may measure it with their own progress. They ask for your next move that they may know how to make their next move. Among your friends, there will be one or two. These ones are the toxic and narcissistic friends, if you pay attention enough, you will search them out. You should search them out that you may know ‘who is who’, and to guide yourself against hurts and regrets you would experience from their toxic behaviours.

Below are what a toxic and narcissistic friend will do:

1. They Keep Their Plans Away From You

They enjoy doing things without your knowledge. You won’t get to know what is going on with them, not until they actualize those plans. Then you will get to hear from them: “I thought I told you” … “You didn’t ask me about it” … “I didn’t see it coming, so I responded to it immediately.” These and related words are what they will tell you when you feel disappointed about them keeping you in darkness.

Meanwhile, they will always be on your neck to find out what your plans are. They are masters and mistresses in coming into your ‘known’ while they keep you into their ‘unknown’.

2. They Are Jealous

Jealousy is a rage, it does not spare friendship; it breeds many toxic things. They want what you want, they ALWAYS want to have what you have, they want you to introduce them to the people you know. It is an unhealthy habit that is very poisonous.

Look at it, how oft do they come after what you own/know? Always? Then you’ve got a narcissistic friend to yourself. Most people would even dare to have your type of man and woman, if you are a friend to such individual, you should know that there is fire on the mountain.

5 Things A Good Man Never Does In A Relationship

5 Things A Good Man Never Does In A Relationship

No one is practically a good or bad man by birth. What they do is actually what defines them and qualifies them to be either good or bad. A man’s action determines who he is and not what he says only, a man with questionable character will be termed a bad man. Going further, there are dos and don’ts that every good man will abide with in a relationship. There are boundaries they will never cross in the name of anything. What will be discussed below will let you know whether you’ve got for yourself a good man or otherwise.

Below Are What A Good Man Will Never Do In Romantic Relationship:

1. He never cheats

Cheating means double-dealing. Some men will give themselves good reasons to cheat on their partner laying hold on claims that there is need for them to experience a new thing, a new person. A good man in relationship will never cheat on his partner, he knows how to answer his boredom and how to keep the warmth of his love for her partner.

Cheating also means selling falsehood to the other person. This means a good man will not tell lies or deceive his partner. What he says is what he really thinks. Cheating is a preposterous thing to do – it means to trick; to deceive; to fool.

One Thing Each Zodiac Sign Has That Makes Their Partner Find Them More Attractive Than Sex

One Thing Each Zodiac Sign Has That Makes Their Partner Find Them More Attractive Than Sex

Outside sexiness, there are many unique and attractive qualities that make each zodiac sign dearer to their romantic partner. These beautiful and tempting things about them is their selling point, it adds to their beauty and makes them alluring.

It is the beautiful charm they possess that makes the heart of their partner merry.

Below Are What Make Zodiac Signs Attractive To Their Partner

1. ARIES

(March 21-April 19)

The charming trait that makes Aries looks more charming to their partner is their innocence. It is a virtue and sheds light to their state of purity. They are pleasant beings with a lot of goodness. They are smart and harmless, almost everyone will find peace with them. They are peacekeepers and not a complex being.

The Dark Side of Spiritual Awakening

The Dark Side of Spiritual Awakening

Spiritual awakening does the work of transfiguration. It is a good and very important thing to do. It is a process of revival that provoke some changes in you and changes everything about you.

Spiritual awakening renews your personae, and make all things new for you. You are no longer doing what you used to do, you have a new perspective and you become whole again. You feel regeneration has happened, and actually it has really happened.

Like a newly born, you are full of quiver and ready to explode. Spiritual awakening abets your processes and stages of becoming to come into the reality. Your inner eyes are opened to opportunities laying fallow before you, waiting to be cultivated and exploited. You feel the inner strength to do more in the name of the ‘rush’ you feel within. You are full of gusto and your hands are strengthened to move what seems immovable days back. You feel refueled while you feel light. You will enjoy clarity and speed when spiritual awakening happens.

It is a new breath on you when spiritual awakening happens, everything about you is quickened. While it is a beautiful thing to experience spiritual awakening, you also need to know that spiritual awakening has its dark arts which can endanger the reasons why it happens in the first place.

Twin Flames Separation: The Runner and the Chaser (1 MINUTE READ)

Twin Flames Separation: The Runner and the Chaser (1 MINUTE READ)

Everybody has twin of hearts, and there is a twin flame between them both that generate warmth and affection between the two. Whenever you see twins out there, one is a runner and the other is a chaser. The twin flame will either sparkle to fire or be doused out eventually.

When a man uses a holy weapon, its power will bounce back to wound him, so he must endure severe pain. Whether you are the runner or the chaser, you will experience pain when separation happens. Separation happens because the runner finds their ways into the arms of somebody else to make the person their soul mate, ignoring the efforts and attempts of their chaser twin leaving the chaser to a great deal of pain. Though the runner too won’t be without pain, so both party must be ready for the pain that comes with separation?

5 Superpowers People With Anxiety Have.

5 Superpowers People With Anxiety Have

People get anxious for a reason, it just doesn’t happen, it happens because it has to happen. Anxiety is usually an unpleasant state of mental uneasiness, nervousness, apprehension, obsession or concern about some uncertain event.

But it could also be interpreted as an uneasy or desire for something. With the lines above, it is evident that anxiety has mental power embedded in itself. It is not all bad as we always paint it. Some people needs to be anxious to be able to manifest themselves in some ways they least expected (for the good of it).

We Fall In Love With 3 People In Our Lifetime

We Fall In Love With 3 People In Our Lifetime

Love is not something we invented, it is observable and powerful. It has a meaning outside social utility, social bonding, child rearing because we still find ourselves loving people who have died. Love is something more, something we can’t yet understand; it is some evidence; some artifact of a higher dimension that we can’t consciously perceive. We are drawn across the universe to someone we haven’t seen in a decade like who we know is probably dead. We fondly remember our loved ones who have transited to great beyond them because we still love them.

Love seems to be the one thing we are capable of perceiving that transcends dimensions of time and space, we should acknowledge this even if we can’t understand it yet. So in a lifetime, there are 3 types of people we will fall in love with – you can’t help it, they will come your way or you will be the one that will patronize them. These three different categories you will meet will leave footprints to be remembered in your life.

How Your Intuition Works Based On Your Zodiac Signs

How Your Intuition Works Based On Your Zodiac Signs

Intuition is a whisper of the soul that characterizes one’s insight and awareness. It informs man’s choices and decisions. Intuition is a perceptive insight gained by the sixth sense. There are diverse ways people get inspired to make things happen. We think and feel differently because of the make-up that works in us.

Everyone is an intuitive being; we all process intuition. But the way our intuition calls us into action is way different from others. Intuition is a deposit of your inner mind into your soul, everybody has it, better still, let me say everyone has the potential but not all actually cultivate their intuitive ability.

Do You Pray? (I Love This Interpretation Of A Prayer)

Do You Pray? (I Love This Interpretation Of A Prayer)

Prayer is an act of communication to God; a pathway where we send and receive signals. You say (send) your words to God, and in return He speaks to you too. Though all what most people do is to pray and move on.

If there is a talking mouth, there is a listening ear. While you pray, it is also important that you wait to receive signals or feedbacks from the one you’ve prayed to. Imagine her father’s daughter or his mother’s son communicating their thoughts, requests, questions, fears and anxieties to their parent, their parent will speak in return and in essence of what the children has discussed with them. Likewise! Your creator and heavenly father who loves you more than your earthly parent will always have something to say to you in replies to what you say to him. So now, we can agree that prayer is the practice of communicating with God – not communicating to Him alone.

What It Means When A Narcissist Says “I LOVE YOU”

What It Means When A Narcissist Says “I LOVE YOU”

The same word can come with different meaning depending on the speaker and the listener. Interpretation of word varies, never assume you fully understand a statement – so don’t hesitate to ask what the speaker actually means, and the speaker may have to ask the listener if they really grasp what they mean to say.

Now back to narcissist; who is a narcissist? These individuals are full of egoism and pride; they show extreme affection, love and admiration for themselves with little or no reservation for other. They love themselves to a fault and at the detriment of others.

7 Phrases Men Say When They Are Really Into You

7 Phrases Men Say When They Are Really Into You

To the good men that love you, their actions are never enough for them, they confess their feeling that complement their action to you. It all started from their head, then to their mouth.

Through words of a man, you can know if he is not into you or he is really into you. The words that come out of their mouth can be a good way to measure the weight and feeling of their heart to you.

There are phrases he will say to you now and often – not just once, and these phrases are what you will look out for because you like hearing your man say those to you. Through his words, you will know where he was coming from and where he is going.

5 Behaviours Common Among Adults Who Went Through Trauma At Their Young Age

5 Behaviours Common Among Adults Who Went Through Trauma At Their Young Age

The life an adult lives is a formation of their experiences while growing up. We are not born with behaviours, most thing we end up doing are what life has taught us successfully. Our formative years are very important to the extent that they determine our latter years (the future to live).

The environments an adult lived, the eye-sore experiences an adult experienced would be seen in their today’s life. Trauma is an emotional wound leading to psychological injury; it is an event that causes great distress. Now imagine an adult that went through series of unfortunate events; that went from distress to distress. It would be very difficult for them to suffer such wounds without leaving scars on them.

5 Signs Your Unconscious Mind Is Trying To Tell You Something

5 Signs Your Unconscious Mind Is Trying To Tell You Something

Do you know that your unconscious mind does whisper to you through the window of your soul? How much do you know about this? There is something called inner voice, it is from your unconscious mind trying to help you navigate so well in decision making. Your inner eyes see what your optical eyes don’t see already, so to pass the information to you, your inner eyes send a signal to your unconscious mind, when this mind receives it, it sends as inner voice to your conscious mind.

Everyone has their unconscious mind, and it speaks to us from time to time except you don’t pay attention. Some people call it ‘an inkling’, some ‘hunch’. It is ‘a feeling’ to others; they feel something, they exhibit suspicion. These are diverse methods your unconscious mind tells you what you don’t know.

5 Feelings That Sociopaths And Narcissists Leave Behind

5 Feelings That Sociopaths And Narcissists Leave Behind

The wounds inflicted on us will be healed, not without scars anyway. Over the years, we have suffered toxic handling from sociopaths and narcissists. We have them as friends, romantic partners, boss, sometimes as parent. They have patronized our emotional field and leave us with some negative energies that we now dread.

The feelings are negative, and maybe they have come to stay. Meeting with sociopaths and narcissists is not a good thing to experience, but what can we do? We can’t help it and we can only identify them when it is almost too late because they don’t inscribe the title on their foreheads for us to see. It is a sigh of relief when we escape from the snare and grip of the sociopaths and narcissists in our life. Even though we are able to thank goodness that we don’t suffer their very torture again yet the memory of the escapade we had with them still lingers on our minds.

5 Signs A Man Is Carrying A Broken Heart

5 Signs A Man Is Carrying A Broken Heart

Not all men you see are full of life and emotion, some are broken hearted; these men have suffered wounds and still have to nurse the itching scars caused by the wound. You may not know the man in your office, that the man you see at park every morning is someone we can call half-walking dead.

He came, he saw and his sight is affected due to a lot of lightning he can’t withstand. The smile they give is a forced smile, sometimes the hope they give is a false hope, and they are only trying to live when they are not feeling alive. He used to be a dreamer, but now his dreams are slipping out of his mind into the thin air. He used to be full of life but now he is not sure if he still has a portion in the land of living.

N.B: Please be well informed that it is not only love matters that can cause a man to have a broken heart: Loss of dear ones, day to day disappointments and struggles.

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